In the world of artists, creators, and entrepreneurs, a level of performance is often inevitable. Few people genuinely know us, and it’s natural to present a certain persona in professional settings. This persona showcases the business, service, artistry, or product we offer. It’s a necessary part of the game, but problems arise when this persona is built on the premise that constant performance is essential for acceptance.
The Problem with Over-Performance
If you believe you need to over-deliver or give all of yourself constantly to be valued, you may end up feeling bitter or depleted. This stems from a detrimental belief that you are not worthy as you are. Some people will never accept you, regardless of your efforts. If you’re operating under the notion that you’re not good enough or the second choice, it’s crucial to address and resolve these inner beliefs. Being exhausted and over the persona you’ve created is a sign that it’s time for change.
Setting Boundaries and Earning Access
Not everyone deserves full access to your talents. Your most intimate relationships should be reserved for those who genuinely earn their place. Even as an artist, entrepreneur, or community leader, it’s perfectly acceptable to set rules and boundaries. These boundaries do not only protect your well-being but also add value to what you offer. Requring people to ask permission to be close to your artistry, to join a mastermind, or subscribe to your insights builds credibility and validity.
Building Authentic Credibility
Everyone has a persona, but falling into the trap of over-delivering constantly isn’t authentic. It reflects a lack of boundaries. Establishing clear rules and conditions for others to engage with your work is not only acceptable but necessary. By doing so, you maintain control over your energy and resources, ensuring that you can continue to offer genuine value without compromising yourself.
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