Comparison is often dubbed the thief of joy. It’s prevalent across social media platforms, where many compare their successes, failures, and everything in between. The reality is that comparison is an intrinsic part of life—it helps us make choices and discern differences. While many argue that comparison fosters negativity, let’s explore a different perspective: competition and comparison are necessary for growth and development.
The Role of Competition
Coming from an era where to be the best meant competing, I recall childhood races where boys and girls tested their speed. Initially, boys were faster, but some girls, including myself, soon caught up by adapting to new conditions and competitors. This adaptation highlights how individuals develop specific strengths based on their environment. Everyone operates on different planes with unique conditions and capabilities. Thus, they aren’t necessarily better—just more suited to their current environment.
Shifting Planes and Environments
Our world is one of contrasts—high and low, black and white, hot and cold. These dichotomies shape our perceptions of good and bad. However, assumptions about others’ lives are often misguided. We don’t always know their conditions, capabilities, or struggles. Hence, comparing ourselves to others without this insight is futile.
Competition, however, compels us to evaluate our conditions, capabilities, and environments to progress from one plane to another. It’s not about superficial comparisons but understanding the factors that contribute to success.
The Implications of External Conditions
Consider the socioeconomic implications: in a world where middle incomes are dwindling, the differences between having a real Gucci bag or a fake one become trivial. Both individuals are one paycheck away from financial instability. The absence of a middle-class flattens societal planes, creating a crowded space where competition becomes more relevant. This crowding emphasizes the importance of personal growth and competitive spirit to navigate and thrive.
True Nature of Progress
Competition isn’t inherently negative; it motivates self-improvement. It requires a clear understanding of your current position, conditions, and the necessary steps to advance to a more suitable plane. Merely aspiring to a different plane without the requisite mindset, strength, or conditions won’t lead to success.
The Myth of ‘Fake It Till You Make It’
The adage ‘fake it till you make it’ suggests believing in your goals until they manifest. However, this belief should be rooted in genuine actions that align with the desired capabilities and mindset. When the façade becomes insufficient, continued growth depends on real abilities and adaptations. Those who fail to transition from faking to making often fall off, as the fakeness no longer sustains them.
Embrace Competition for Growth
Ultimately, competition and comparison, when understood deeply, are tools for personal and professional growth. They push you to evaluate and improve your conditions and capabilities. This understanding transcends superficial comparisons, encouraging meaningful progress.
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